As you probably already know, since you’re here, strap on play is defined by penetration by someone who hasn’t got a penis, and it’s also known as pegging. Many people are hugely intrigued by the idea of playing with a Strap On Escort but are understandably nervous about the experience. This article will lay out some of the common fears and misconceptions, and advise you on how to enjoy your experience with a Strap On Escort.
Fears around Strap-On Play
Many people worry that it will hurt, but it doesn’t have to. An experienced Strap On Escort will know how to help you enjoy strap on play even if it’s your first time. Latent homophobic attitudes (the ones that some of us were unlucky enough to grow up with) can also be a barrier to discovering the joys that lie within what has often been perceived as a taboo area. The prostate is highly sensitive and with the right stimulation can provide sensations you may never have experienced before.
Many people also fear that anal play can lead to permanent damage and incontinence, but when you’re playing safely and sanely, this couldn’t be further from the truth.
How to Prepare for Seeing a Strap On Escort
You might be worried about mess, and that is one of the main fears people have when planning to see a Strap On Escort. Firstly, you shouldn’t worry too much. It is easy to clean and prepare yourself for strap on play, and any Strap On Escort will understand that occasionally accidents happen despite the best of preparations – so don’t let that fear put you off!
A gentle douche with lukewarm water and a bulb device (cheap and readily available from hundreds of discreet, online sex toy shops) carried out a few hours before play is usually enough to make sure you’re shiny clean for your Strap On Escort – and you’ll enjoy the experience far more if you feel confident and able to relax. Make sure you have had plenty of water to drink too, as hydration is important. Above all, relax, take it slowly and communicate frequently with your Strap On Escort.
For more in depth information, you can read these fantastic articles by Robin Ardeur on dispelling myths and fears, and how to prepare for strap on play.