Elsie Buchanan

Indulge me being verbose again; intimacy, while a primarily physical phenomenon, lives and dies in the mind.

For simplicities sake, let’s call me a switch. The reality for everyone, is that we tend to respond in real time to the energy of our partner/s. I’m a very opinionated woman (in case you hadn’t already twigged it), so even when in a less agentic position, you’ll still feel that mind ticking over. Either that concept excites you, or it doesn’t – no hard feelings, not everyone is for everyone.

What do I enjoy? I like exploring the body a bit like a lab. What physical sensations cause which responses in the mind; what is the most surefire way to make someone forget themselves, does praise need to be said aloud or can the same response be gotten with a very specific form of eye contact? Is physical restraint necessary or can over time mental restraint be more potent? What’s the impact of light-levels on human arousal? What about scents? Time of day? Celestial position (in the seafaring navigator sense, not the astrological sense)? Who’s still wearing clothes and what fabric is it made of? What do we learn about ourselves, our curiosities, predispositions, untapped pools of energy? What’s the extent of the high from watching someone finally be able to rest their racing mind, or to be the one who finds that rest? There’s no end to the amount of AB testing that can be done; and I’m a commensurate researcher.

Oh, and feet. Big fan of someone playing with my feet. No offense taken if you don’t like feet, but I want that stated for the record.

I am rather picky about what I chose to do, but what I chose to do, I do exceptionally well.