When Hazel met … Tulsi Tamora

Hello Hazel, I’m very well, thank you. I’ve been spending lockdown re-reading books in my collection I’d completely forgotten about. Once lockdown eases, I simply can’t wait to be back dining with my dates, knowing that the end of night will be filled with some tantalising activities. Getting to know someone and then getting on top of them is an insatiable desire of mine.

Being a sensual mistress in London taps into the most delicious part of my desire – the desire to gently dominate a man. I absolutely love meeting my dates, especially when they’re new or nervous, and creating a warm atmosphere that eases them into gentle submission. With a delicate kiss and a loving caress, they melt into my arms, ready to submit as they’ve always desired to. And that really sets my desire alight!

I’ve experimented with most aspects of domination, but I’d like to try more extended play. Locking someone up while we explore the city is a classic. My dream is to build on that and have a full weekend of teasing torture planned, with only the slight promise of release at the end.

Whether we’re playing gently more more intensely in the dungeon, a social component to our booking allows for a slow stripping away of layers unlike no other, to craft a truly bespoke kink experience. My favourite social dates take us to cultural experiences. There’s something truly special about sitting next to someone at the theatre, knees lightly brushing, smiling, both knowing that you’re going to be in control later. And of course, I love duos. Just this morning, a friend and I were mercilessly teasing a poor gentleman. He had so many tongues, hands and fingers in every which way that all he could do was close his eyes and give in! Duos allow for double the physical, mental and emotional kinky imagination.

A man’s mouth and tongue, for me to sit on whenever I like. Is that answer cheating?

You can never go wrong with the simple things – a book for me to add to my ever teetering bookshelves, a bouquet of roses. I adore objects with artistic craftsmanship that I can cherish long-term, such as vintage fashion pieces, jewellery, and homeware. I also adore experiences that we can enjoy together. For example, luxury toys for us to use, lingerie for me (or him!) to wear, memberships to galleries and theatres we can visit, and couples trips to the spa.

As I’ve alluded to, I’m a voracious reader. I’ll read anything from experimental fiction to historical non-fiction. At the moment, I’m reading Jutland by Selima Hill, a beautiful collection of contemporary poetry. To spoil myself, I love leafing through a new cookbook and trying out a new recipe my eye falls on.