If you feel like you’re lacking in date inspiration – well you’re in luck! Our resident nightlife maven Nova Bergman is here to share her favourite spots with you – perfect for wooing kinky escorts in London.
Just like most of my excellent independent London escort babes at KLE headquarters, I’m not exactly famous for being shy or slow to get to the action. After you’ve told me about your erotic fantasy, I’m usually very eager to put my teeth into it (you)!
But I also think some of the best kinky encounters come from trust and intimacy, and the slow build-up of flirting and excavating each other’s minds over a cocktail or three. Kink is about so much more than what happens in the bedroom. This is why I love weaving in the kind of connection that normally falls under the “girlfriend experience” (GFE) in my kinky encounters.
Sometimes this does mean starting in the bedroom, but in a more gentle way by maybe sharing a bottle of Champagne and chatting on the bed (I’m gonna patent this as “Champagne and Chill”), before hands and mouths slowly sense what flavor the chemistry and attraction between us has. While I love a well-written outline of your kinky fantasy and I usually get a very good sense of what you like just from your email, it is just delicious to have some time to intimately feel out what the dynamic is when we are in the same room. The way you kiss, the way you move, the heat between our bodies, the way you touch me (even in a more vanilla way) says a lot about what our kink dynamic will be like…
Moving on from the Champagne and Chill GFE, there is nothing like the electrifying anticipation that builds up when you have a chance to get to know each other’s shadowlands outside of the bedroom first. There’s a very titillating feeling to talking about dark secrets and laying bare your most inner erotic imagination in a public space, while at a safe distance from others. They can see us, and maybe there will be little cues in our body language towards each other as the electricity flies between us, but no one can hear the secrets we’re divulging. And in some places, there might even be an option for getting a tease of each other’s carnal desires.
But, not just any place is suitable for this. Atmosphere, or as my friend Elle Stone expressed it: “a slight air of debauchery”, is key to the perfect warm-up for a kinky GFE encounter. So, below I have listed some of London’s sexiest places to take your kinky escort date to.
The Arts Theatre Club Soho
This place is just perfect- it has a very 1920s speakeasy feel to it. You go downstairs, there is no phone reception, and the interior is all burgundy, velvet and dark corners. They also serve excellent cocktails and its right in the hear of Soho.
St James Bar, Sofitel hotel
This bar is tucked away inside the Sofitel Hotel. The colours are navy and gold, and their cocktails have the most incredible list of ingredients- little works of art for your taste pallet. The Champagne selection is also to die for! And it’s very handy to have hotel rooms just up the stairs…
Aire Spa
Descending down the stairs of Aire spa is like entering Hades’ underworld. No wonder London’s independent escorts love it. It’s dark, quiet, only lit by candles and the reflections from the glistening pool water. Their strict ‘whispering only’ policy can take some adjustment (Scarlett May and I have been told off more than once for talking too loudly and excitedly in this place, oops!), but soon you’ll see how sexy it is when you have to get close to each other every time you speak. Being dressed in very little, while the steam and heated pools loosen up your bodies, you are guaranteed to leave perfectly lubricated for a kinky session.
The Fitz Bar
This is a bar I haven’t actually been to, but after doing some important Twitter research, one of my KLE colleagues and an old lover told me about its Gothic style with dark corners, and I was immediately intrigued. I am especially taken by their description of the Mirrorball room: “ The Mirrorball Room drips in decadence: dazzling Ostrich feathers, Victorian curios, crocodile-skin wallpaper, a roaring fireplace and glistening, oversized mirrorball,” Now, the only question is who will take me there?
Velvet at Corinthia
Maybe it’s obvious by now, but I really like velvet. So what better place than a bar named just Velvet? This bar is romantic, glamorous and Art Deco- perfect for an intimate date and getting the erotic juices flowing. And why not make it an all-day/all-night experience by having some time at their spa before heading up to the hotel room?