Step out of the driver’s seat and hand over the keys to our very own elite dominant companion Dahlia Duchamp.  Surrender to her brilliant command.  She knows exactly how to take what she wants. Prepare to explore the thrilling, liberating power of total submission and the exquisite fantasy of becoming a woman’s personal plaything.

Today I want to share a surprisingly popular request that perfectly caters to my own fantasy.

For the longest time I wanted to know how it would feel to use a man’s body entirely as I pleased. I’m a woman with a high sex drive who is turned on by herself and loves to be in charge. If only I could find a willing participant whose desires complimented mine. I’ve been a dominant escort for a few years, so I enjoy a tie and tease, I’m skilled with a strap-on, I’ve been worshiped every which way. But, when a man asks to be taken by force, either whipped into submission until he’s trembling with fear and will do anything to make me happy, or tied up fully nude so he can be used any way I please, this really lights my fire.

Men are so often expected to take charge. That doesn’t work for me, but fortunately, there are others out there who want, maybe need, to be overpowered. Some like to be overpowered by force, psychological manipulation, or my favourite, physically restrained.

She’s in charge the second she walks through the door. She tells you to strip down to your underwear and kneel on the floor, then doesn’t say another word while she starts rigging the bed. You sneak a glance at her while she secures her ropes behind you. She takes off her jeans and tshirt, revealing a pure black lingerie set complete with stockings. She puts her heels back on, because she likes to look the part while she’s having her way with you. (note; I like a room with lots of mirrors, I love watching myself). Finally, she turns her attention to you. She grips your throat and tells you what’s about to happen. She whispers things in your ear that make you quiver and breathe quicker. She likes this, she can see your pupils are dilated, you’re alert and ready to take instruction. She puts her fingers into your mouth and you instinctively suck them. You barely struggle as she expertly ties down your wrists, followed by your ankles. She’s going to have her way with you until she’s completely satisfied, and there’s nothing you can do to stop her.

Think you’re the only one who wants this? Think again. While many clients go in for a dominant GFE session, there are a special few who become my toys. This means they have a desire to be overpowered and used. Sure, static objectification is fun, I’ve used many a sub as my footstool or chair, but there are better uses for the submissive’s body if they are willing. Toys never interested me as much as the real thing, but I don’t enjoy the macho bullshit that comes with it. This is where you come in.

Are you curious about trying dominant kinky GFE for the first time, or are you looking to push your limits to something that feels forbidden? If you’ve got this far, I am willing to bet you’ve already thought about this. A confident, beautiful woman taking control, overpowering you and using every part of you to get off.

Sadly, a lot of men admit to a lack of knowledge about pleasuring women. They also report feeling stuck and uninspired by the expectations of vanilla, heterosexual sex. They want a woman who not only knows how she needs to be pleasured but instructs you on it and takes what she wants. No games, no mindreading, just giving her what she needs. A lot of you want this treatment.

So, perhaps you want a confident, dominant woman who will instruct you on how and where to touch. Maybe you want to be physically restrained and taken advantage of, and you thought this was too much to ask, you need to think again.

Why does this appeal? I believe there are three main points.

1. A need to relinquish control and give up decision making power.

2. A fantasy of being wanted, owned and used by a dominant woman.

3. A desire to experience a woman whose only priority is her own pleasure, and to see every aspect of this culminate, first hand, in real, unapologetic climax.

There are different ways to play this. You can be a willing participant, subservient and eager to please. You could also be interested in testing out your fantasises of consensual non-consent (CNC), a game I know how to play safely and with excellent results. Bare in mind, that in order to curate the experience matching your fantasy, you can expect very clear communication and negotiation of the scene to deliver the perfect fantasy. Nothing happens that you don’t actually want to, but if you wish to experience being overpowered, even struggling, while submitting to me, you’ll be in safe hands.

This experience can be made twice as thrilling with two dominant escorts. It may be every man’s fantasy to be with two bisexual women who fancy each other a bit more than they fancy you. But, what if they were there just to play together, using your body as a human toy? You can explore total powerlessness and be granted the gift of a lifetime, as two women get off with you as their personal plaything.

Not everybody fits the bill to become my plaything. It’s not about size, though that’s certainly fun. What I’m looking for is a well-behaved man, willing to explore his submissive side and capable of following orders. You don’t have to have done this before, this could be a fantasy that lives behind a locked door in your mind.  Maybe you never knew there was a way to make it real.

If you are intrigued and have questions, let this be your sign to contact me. I may be a dominant kinky escort with the power to make you her toy, but before the scene starts, I’m friendly and a great communicator. You can contact me privately via the form on my website. No need to begin with honorifics and telling me you want to worship at my feet, just introduce yourself politely and tell me, respectfully, what you have in mind for this encounter, and feel free to ask any relevant questions you may have.

So, back to you, tied up and completely exposed on the bed. The woman of your dreams is on top of you, admiring herself in the mirror while she uses you. She takes you to the edge and stops just before you are no longer are of use to her. She’s not done with you yet, she wants to make you last until she’s completely satisfied.

I’m grateful and honoured that there are clients out there whose needs perfectly compliment my own debased desires. After sessions like this I receive the sweetest thank you notes and I’m reminded how extraordinary it is to fulfil kinky desire, but we are all so much better for it. One of the things that is truly delightful about listing with KLE is having a space to share these aspects of my work, and being a part of a community of beautiful, diverse, women who embrace the forbidden like I do. There really is no reason to think you can’t experience even your darkest desires with a community of professional and discreet ladies within arm’s reach.

…Are you ready to become my new favourite toy? Do you dream of submission, becoming tied up and helpless, or being used strictly for my own (and maybe a girlfriend’s) pleasure? Let’s see if you have what it takes.

The door is open, the restraints are ready, and your surrender awaits. Get in touch with me directly to respectfully negotiate your perfect scene and see what it truly feels like to relinquish control. Or, if you are ready to double the thrill, browse our exceptional roster of independent providers at KLE to find the perfect partner to help us use you entirely as we please.

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