Letizia and Tulsi have been on each other’s radars for a while. Both being experienced kinky & independent escorts in London, they’ve naturally orbited in mutual circles of drinks, dinner, duos, and dungeons. Realising that they both have a deep love of BDSM – and a wealth of kinky anecdotes hot enough to make them both blush! – they decided they simply had to chat. Meeting over Old Comptons at the beautifully lit Swift Bar, Soho, they exchanged insights into their journeys into this world of tantalising torture …
Tulsi: Hey, Leti! It’s so great to have a chance to catch up in the midst of this whirlwind of an Autumn we’ve both been having! I’m so excited to join you for a drink, (and I have to say, this rhubarb amaro is perfectly punchy) and learn all about your deliciously kinky adventures. How are you doing?
Leti: Hey Tulsi, I am very well! Post-summery, rested and ready for new escapades! I have to say, I love your dress. You have this effortless, sensual style about you that’s really chic! How are you doing?
Tulsi:I’m very well, thank you and you’re so sweet, I’m blushing! Partly due to your compliment, and the rest for THAT sexy number you’re wearing. Well, I have been quite busy with university, have also had some lovely cultural dates recently, and of course, my reading. Typically, as you well know, I have a pile of books by my bedside that I endeavour to finish, but inevitably end up just adding to. This year though, I’m actually getting through it all! Right now, I’m re-reading The Bloody Chamber, Angela Carter’s retelling of Marquis de Sade’s tales.
Which naturally leads me to a burning question I have for you – how did you get into kink? I’ve always been curious to discover that!
Leti: You know as much as I do that London’s a space for curiosity, and when I first moved here in 2012, I was determined to follow where mine led me! London’s hidden side appeared to me when a friend invited me to a “techno party”. In reality, music was NOT the main focus of the night. That evening turned out to be an introduction into the world of kink. I’d say I was fairly innocent then, and had no idea what to expect or what I would get into! But the moment I stepped into that erotically charged atmosphere, my initial shock melted away. People were not judging whether I played or not, or what I was wearing, or looked like. Though I did look fabulous! It was simply a group of relaxed, sexy people following their physical desires – real bodies giving and taking pleasure in all kinds of ways! My innocence quickly dissolved. From that night onwards, something changed.
So I started reading about BDSM, going to munches and kink parties, to learn from and connect with like minded kinksters. I discovered the allure of shibari play, and fell in lust with those binding ropes. Slipping under the spell of whispered commands and firmly delivered verbal instructions. I became hooked on exploring the wild side of sex.
I wonder if that relates to your own journey into kink? How did you discover your skill as a mistress and independent escort in London?
Tulsi: Oh, your journey absolutely mirrors mine! Just as I had started to explore my personal sexuality in the clubs and bars of London, a friend invited me to that infamous fetish club, Torture Garden. Intrigued by the name, I went along – perhaps a little nervously, but so ready! I remember as I first stepped inside, I passed rooms where I could hear that electrifying ‘snap” of a whip, my eyes fell on St. Andrews crosses, the ankle and wrist restraints seemed to be calling out to me to use them. But what I found most significant was witnessing beautiful dominant women towering over men. Not so much physically, but with their presence. I could see the power they wielded simply through a glance, gestures and their body language. It was something I’d never imagined!
I learnt that night that it isn’t only toys, implements (and Doms!) that straddle that beautiful boundary between pain and pleasure. I also discovered a world in which the roles are reversed and women such as myself – naturally dominant women – took charge.
I was super excited, so much so, I decided to train under two dominatrices across the country. Through them, I gained valuable, lifelong experience in the art of kink. Before, I perhaps had the same misconception of BDSM that most people do – that it’s all about mindless pain. But my training allowed me to cultivate my sensitivity. I learnt how to understand my play partners’ innermost desires. I discovered a side of me that really delighted in the range of domination that exists. Ranging from a soft, sensual type, to the tough, hardcore kind. As long as that bespoke, genuine connection between myself and my sub was there.
That’s really what I love most about the D/s dynamic – what about you?
Leti: I completely agree with you! For this to happen, a mental connection is vital. To me, it’s a series of interactions where power meets surrender. That connection that happens between two wickedly deviant minds, of being in control, yet letting go. Those collaborative power play scenes let us explore and release our physical and emotional fantasies to the fullest.
Tulsi: Oh, absolutely! There’s that moment where both of you just melt away, and you unlock something deeper in the both of you – something that’s you’ve yearned to experience for a long time. Truly, I consider pleasure as something everybody deserves. Desires are there to be realised! Speaking of which Leti, do you have a favourite implement or toy that’s – if you’ll allow the pun – bound to bring out desire in you?
Leti: Alright, brace yourself for this one, it ties in with your experience at Torture Garden – my leather whip! It’s my favourite for a very good reason. There’s something addictive about the power it holds, both for me and my submissive. Visually, aurally and physically. With a simple flick, I can send shivers down your spine, as you anticipate it’s touch on your body. I’m in complete control of your pleasure and pain.
And you must tell me Tulsi, what’s your favourite toy? I hope you’ve been lucky enough to use it recently!
Tulsi: I’m very happy to say, yes! I recently met with a date, who was new to the world of seeing kinky companions. He was naturally a little nervous, so, we had a dinner date at one of my favourite restaurants, Gymkhana. Taking the time to unwind together pressure free meant we could actually form the authentic connection that is so key to unlocking our deepest desires in kink. Not to mention, I got to tease him with little challenges over dinner, racking up the rewards and punishments for later. After dinner we headed to our final destination, a fabulous dungeon. This is where he received his just desserts with my favourite toy…my hand! Of course, I have been known to use a cane, or even the back of my heels to deliver a good spanking. It’s one of the most erotic kinky acts there is. The cold sting of my palm, followed by, only if he’s good, a warm caress, to be followed up with more loving control, that he begs me for…
There’s nothing better than a luxury kink experience, in my books. Does that resonate with you, Leti?
Leti: It’s a wonderful secret indulgence. Meeting up in a luxe setting beforehand, paying attention to all the little details of our play, wearing beautiful lingerie underneath my dress, it amplifies the excitement. It’s like escaping into a world you create, and so your wildest dreams do spring to life. Let’s just say it’s a date with pleasure you won’t forget!
If you take dining in a a Michelin star restaurant – it’s a lavish dining experience designed to tantalise our every sense. I believe kink experiences should have exactly the same result. Exploring the nuances of power exchange and submission, is akin to savouring a beautiful course bursting with unexpected but complimentary flavours. Just as a chef crafts their dish, I’ve learned to craft scenes, navigating the delicate balance of dominance and trust expertly. Kink combines the art of seduction, sensation and satisfies a hunger. I must say, modestly of course, that I leave clients who indulge in me, completely satisfied.
What would you say to clients who are considering starting their journey of filling this hunger ?
Tulsi: Oh, that was an absolutely beautiful depiction, Letizia! I have to confess, you’re getting me a little hot and flustered imagining you with your whip in hand and your dedication to delight! I would love a lucky sub to bring us together, and quench all our thirsts… Now where was I?
Oh yes, my advice to anyone who has a yearning to explore their kink, but always finds an excuse to push it down, is don’t. You deserve to explore that feeling because once you have, you’ll have unlocked an aspect of pleasure you never thought possible. It’s also best to explore this desire with an experienced kinky independent escort such as Letizia and myself, because we have the expertise, communication skills, and natural enthusiasm and passion crucial to bringing your needs to the surface. And once we do, trust me. Every part of you will feel what it’s always wanted to feel.
What about you Letizia? What would you say to those who are considering seeing an independent escort in London?
Leti: I’d recommend investing time in reading her profile, website or blogs to ensure you’re a perfect match – it’s important that your kinks, expectations and boundaries align. Communication is key in this world, so reach out to your chosen companion respectfully. Oh and finally, treating it as an exciting, ‘real’ date and combining a social element to break the ice first. Getting to know each other, sharing a joke or two, flirting over the dinner table. Now that will always leads to a satisfying adventure.