For some, kink is learned – but for me, I fully believe it’s innate. Submission has been one of the most exciting journeys of my life – one which began before I even knew what it meant to be submissive. I remember, as a young adolescent, watching films like ‘Secretary’ and ‘The Story of O’ (under the cover of night, the volume so quiet only I could hear it), and feeling the almost irresistible urge to offer myself up to someone to do with as they pleased.
For me, pleasure in submission is psychological and physical – ceding to a partner’s every command, the tantalising sensation of sharp pain as I’m being spanked, paddled or flogged, the thrill of entrusting another person with control over my body. My submission is bound up in complexities and contradictions: it can be as intimate and caring as it is cruel and severe, as much about manipulating the mind as about stimulating the body. It’s impossible for me to fully unravel the intricacies of the pleasure I find in submission – is my enjoyment a result of the pleasure I get from physical pain? From the satisfaction and sense of accomplishment I feel in the knowledge that I’ve done a good job in pleasing you, my master or mistress, and making you happy? Or, perhaps, from the twisted thrill I get from pushing myself to do something I don’t want to do, or something that I’ll find humiliating? The answer is, of course, all of these – and many more.
My submissive interests are wide and varied, and as such I welcome masters and mistresses of all levels. I love few things more than guiding a (relative) novice through the world of BDSM – building up a D/S relationship with someone is always an incredibly valuable experience, and it’s quite an honour to be asked to be a person’s introduction into this world of depravity and perversion! I enjoy spontaneous, sensual kink as much as I enjoy the more intense end of the spectrum (and, of course, I also really love more intimate encounters – so don’t feel pressured to be dominant!), and I’m happy to show you all of my favourite ways to be dominated.