Latest Blog Posts

• Evolution

  When I first discovered my kinky side (many moons ago…), I felt deeply submissive. I didn’t think I had a dominant bone in my body. Indeed, when my lovers asked me to switch I would fill with panic.  As a newbie, I didn’t have the confidence or experience to take control, even though I was […]

• Building A Scene for Your Submissive

  Recently, I met with a lover who was eager to learn more about becoming dominant. He’d long held fantasies about taking charge of a beautiful submissive woman, but was feeling somewhat apprehensive about being the one calling the shots. It’s an anxiety I hear often; lovers are keen to be in charge, yet unsure where […]

• Caning 101

  Oh, where do I begin. The cane is a tough one to beat (pun absolutely intended). Whilst it’s not something every submissive enjoys, it’s hard to deny how appealing it is. The fear, the anticipation, the whoosh as it slices through the air… I can certainly see why so many of us go a little […]

• Trying New Things

  Think back to your childhood. Do you remember when nothing scared you and everything was exciting? Whether it was climbing trees, riding Go-carts, or jumping off the tops of waterfalls, everything was an adventure. Then, as you grew older, into and eventually past your teens, you began to feel weary of the unknown, choosing more […]